The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new. -Unknown
My little cousin who is also expecting sent me this quote. While its kind of true, I disagree with it as well.
I think the moment you learn that you are expecting you become a mom. Your whole thought process changes. You stop thinking so much about yourself and how your actions will affect you but about how they will affect your child, and their well being.